The Unexpected Wait

​Once, it so happened that Lord Krishna was standing in front of the mirror, decorating himself.

He was trying on different crowns on his head and putting on some fine jewellery while his charioteer waited outside with the chariot ready.

His charioteer waited and waited and thought to himself – usually, Krishna comes immediately; today he has still not come.
So, out of curiosity, he went inside to find out if the program was still on, because Krishna was very unpredictable; anytime, anything could change.
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So, the charioteer went inside, and he saw Lord Krishna standing in front of the mirror admiring himself.

He politely asked, “My dear Lord, tell me, why are you dressing up so much today? Where are we going?”

Lord Krishna said, “I am going to meet Duryodhana.”

The charioteer said, “You are dressing up so much to meet Duryodhana?”

Lord Krishna then said, “He cannot see my inside; he can only appreciate my outside. So how I am dressed will impress him because he cannot see what is inside.”

Then the charioteer asked, “ Why are you going to Duryodhana? You should not go; he should come to you. This I cannot accept.”
He continued to say, “This is not fair. Look at your status and look at him! You are the Lord of the world. You should not go; let him come.”

Krishna turned back, looked at him, smiled and said, “Darkness does not come to light; light has to go to darkness.”

May the coming festival of Deepavali illuminate us from within.

While we all light our houses, let’s spend some time today to light a few lamps inside us.

Light the first lamp inside you and let it burn your anger and jealousy that you may have for anyone till date; see it melt away.

Light the second lamp and let it burn away unwanted greed and desires; feel happy and contented with what you have been blessed with.

​Light the third lamp and let it fade away all insecurities that you may have in your mind related to financial matters or anything else; just believe that God has given you life and he will surely give you enough to survive.

Light the fourth lamp and carry that lamp to each part of ur body; let it burn away all your diseased cells or any disease in making. Feel healthy as this lamp travels to each body part and illuminates each organ.

The fifth lamp is a miniature of the Sun, nothing but the divine light; light it in the centre of your body and let it fill the warmth and love inside your whole body; feel one with the Divine; let the love and warmth filled inside you ooze out of you through your smile, eyes, speech, and body.
Carry this love with you throughout the day; you will find that everyone who meets you is happy and elated.

This is the biggest blessing: whoever meets you becomes happier after meeting you; this will also make you happier in return.
“There are lights everywhere except in the minds of the men.” And the mind is a jungle of cravings, greed and material desires.

This too shall pass,
Light these 5 lamps each morning; carry the positivity wherever you go.

Diwali, the festival of lights, is a good time to re-examine ways to remove darkness from within.

Let’s pray that the act of lighting a lamp this Diwali may be seen by all as a great opportunity to light the lamp within ourselves as well.

Light your lamp within & stay blessed forever.💥💫💥🧡💥💫🙏

Happy Diwali!

​My Favourite Spiritual Definitions & Equations ~ Nithya Shanti

(Compiled by Nithya Shanti)

Here is a collection of some of ​my favourite spiritual definitions and equations. A few of these are inspired by teachers like Byron Katie (BK), Ajahn Brahm (AB), Brian Tracy (BT), Jack Canfield (JC) a​nd the Ancient Greek (G) and Sufi Traditions (S). The rest are either my own or from unknown sources.

Equanimity is “happiness for no reason”.

Mindfulness is “moving at the speed of life”.

Suffering is “arguing with reality”. (BK)

Happiness is “loving what is”. (BK)

Love (Agape) means “to let be”. (G)

Oneness is “dissolving into the flow of life”.

Meditation is “meeting yourself without your stories”.

Love is “meeting the other without stories”.

Enlightenment is “meeting all of life without stories”.

Heaven is “loving where you are”. (AB)

Hell is “judging where you are”. (AB)

Anger is “frustrated expectations”. (AB)

Guilt is “anger turned inwards”. (AB)

Hate is “fermented anger”.

Forgiving means “thank-you for-giving this to me”.

Equations to Remember:

Wholesome = True + Good + Beautiful (G)

Here…

Science = What is True?

Religion = What is Good?

Art = What is Beautiful?

Concern = Attention + Fear

Care = Attention + Love

Event + Response = Outcome (JC)

Job = Hands – (Heart + Head)

Career = (Head + Hands) – Heart

Calling = Heart + Head + Hands

Deep Listening = (Words + Feelings + Intentions + Silence) – Assumptions

Reflective Listening = Pause + Question + Reflect (BT)

Authentic Speech = True + Kind + Necessary (S)

Spirituality = Religion – Fear

Presence = Persona + Essence

Peace = Present – Expectations

Suffering = Feeling + Resistance

Boredom = Now – Wow

Blunder = Belief – Wonder

Actualize = Vocalize + Visualize + Emotionalize + Actionize

Dharma = Discover Who You Really Are + Hone Your Gifts + Share Your Gifts

Drama = Dharma – Humility

Discontentment = Experience – Appreciation  

Bondage = Experience + Stickiness 

Freedom = Experience – Stickiness

Jealousy = Compliments – Rejoicing

There are many more, but this a good start!

“I’m not your friend,the pencil snapped. I hate you”…

The pencil sat silently on the desk, lines of words flowing from its tip. Each stroke looked bold, yet every so often, hesitation crept in, leaving behind crooked letters and misplaced thoughts.

The eraser, watching quietly, finally whispered, “You seem troubled.”

The pencil frowned. “I wish you’d stop interfering. Every time I try to write, you show up and take pieces of me away.”

The eraser’s voice trembled but stayed gentle. “I don’t take from you—I take from your mistakes, so your story shines brighter.”

The pencil snapped, bitterness in its tone: “Easy for you to say. You’re slowly disappearing with every correction. And one day, you’ll be gone completely.”

A soft smile formed on the eraser’s worn face. “And isn’t that beautiful? To give a little of myself so your journey looks cleaner, clearer, and easier to read?”

The pencil fell quiet, guilt sinking in. After a pause, it whispered, “But I, too, feel smaller with every word I write. We’re both fading.”

The eraser leaned closer, tender and calm. “Then maybe fading isn’t failure. Maybe it means we’re being used for what we were created for. You write, I correct. Together, we leave behind something worth keeping. What could be more meaningful?”

The pencil’s sharpness softened. “And all this time, I thought you were against me. But you were with me.”

The eraser nodded. “Always. Even if it costs me.”

And that day, the pencil learned something profound:
We don’t live forever. Each day, each moment, takes something from us. But if our time, our energy, our sacrifices make someone else’s path lighter, if our presence leaves behind words of love instead of stains of regret—then disappearing isn’t the end. It’s fulfilment.

So if you can’t always be the one who writes joy into people’s lives, be the one who gently erases their pain.

Because both are needed. Both matter.

And both are love in action. #communitysupport #gratitude

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The Difference Between a Teacher and a Guru

1. A teacher takes responsibility for your growth.
A Guru makes you responsible for your growth.

2.A teacher gives you things you do not have and require.
A Guru takes away things you have and do not require.


3. A teacher answers your questions.
A Guru questions your answers.

4. A teacher requires obedience and discipline from the pupil.
A Guru requires trust and humility from the pupil.

5. A teacher clothes you and prepares you for the outer journey.
A Guru strips you and prepares you for the inner journey.

6. A teacher is a guide on the path.
A Guru is a pointer to the way.

7. A teacher sends you on the road to success.
A Guru sends you on the road to freedom.

8. A teacher explains the world and its nature to you.
A Guru explains yourself and your nature to you.

9. A teacher gives you knowledge and boosts your ego.
A Guru takes away your knowledge and punctures your ego.

10. A teacher instructs you.
A Guru constructs you.

11. A teacher sharpens your mind.
A Guru opens your mind.

12. A teacher reaches your mind.
A Guru touches your spirit.

13. A teacher instructs you on how to solve problems.
A Guru shows you how to resolve issues.

14. A teacher is a systematic thinker.
A Guru is a lateral thinker.

15. One can always find a teacher.
But a Guru has to find and accept you.

16. A teacher leads you by the hand.
A Guru leads you by example.

17.When a teacher finishes with you, you celebrate.
When a Guru finishes with YOU , life celebrates.  

Profound distinction between Intelligence and Wisdom

Did you ever wonder that the distinction between the two is? And what it means in one’s life?

Worth reading on …

  1. Intelligence leads to arguments.
    Wisdom leads to settlements.
  2. Intelligence is power of will.
    Wisdom is power OVER  will.
  3. Intelligence is heat, it burns.
    Wisdom is warmth, it comforts.
  4. Intelligence is pursuit of knowledge, it tires the seeker.
    Wisdom is pursuit of truth, it inspires the seeker.
  5. Intelligence is holding on.
    Wisdom is letting go.
  6. Intelligence leads you.
    Wisdom guides you.
  7. An intelligent man thinks he knows everything.
    A wise man knows that there is still something to learn.
  8. An intelligent man always tries to prove his point.
    A wise man knows there really is no point.
  9. An intelligent man freely gives unsolicited advice.
    A wise man keeps his counsel until all options are considered.
  10. An intelligent man understands what is being said.
    A wise man understands what is left unsaid.
  11. An intelligent man speaks when he has to say something.
    A wise man speaks when he has something to say.
  12. An intelligent man sees everything as relative.
    A wise man sees everything as related.
  13. An intelligent man tries to control the mass flow.
    A wise man navigates the mass flow.
  14. An intelligent man preaches.
    A wise man reaches.

Intelligence is good
but Wisdom achieves better results.